When you don't learn from the past, the good and the bad, you will not GROW.

I'm so amazed  at the thousands of beautiful ladies and handsome men that litter around the whole vicinity.
I attend church programmes and social programmes and I must admit that God is indeed gracious to have created such a beautiful generation.
But I get worried about our attitude to relationship, and marriage in particular. Was discussing with one of my friends and he said that if not for children that there is no need for marriage, another married man said that women are evil that cannot be avoided.
Today people preach condoms more than commitment, physical abuses in marriages has skyrocketed and the society has reduced marriage to sex and children.
We really need to go back to God's word and find out what we are not getting right.
No matter how we perceive the institution of marriage, we cannot be Wiser than God who ordained it.
We need to prepare ourselves for marriage and learn to trust God for our partners and not the society and family.
We need to define the purpose of some of the relationship that we engage in to avoid time wast

ers and the no ambition kind of partners hovering around us.
Marriage is honourable above all things...
I am looking forward for tons of wedding invitations, I want to share in your joy and you don't need to share food on your reception for the world to celebrate with you.
I am already praying that God will open the eyes of your heart to recognise your partner and to bless you with your home in Jesus name Amen.

Yours Sincerely Relationship Expert ( CEO)

You can cry if that will make you feel better. whatever works for you do it.

If crying will make you strong, go ahead and shed those tears
If being broken will make you stronger, please don't resist it
If a heart break will lead you to God's provision for your life, please endure the painful moment.
Sometimes our plans and hopes may not be what God has prepared for us.
It's better to receive the best of God than to hold on to what we feel is good enough for us.
It's a bitter, painful and sometimes a devastating experience but one thing I have learnt in my journey is that even in my deepest and weakest state in life, God is never far away from me and He has never left me without the comfort of the Holy spirit.
Yours Sincerely Relationship Expert ( CEO)

so you can touch his/her private parts, but cannot touch each others phones???? Is this love?

We are living in a generation where people "in love" are free to touch each others' private parts but cannot touch each others' phones because they're private.
Robert Mugabe (2016)

welcome to this episode of Love 'N' Life -Matters of the heart with Mabel Abel. Breakups, understanding the time.

Good day, I need help am heart broken I don't know how to react to my present situation. I have been dating this girl for almost five years now she is 25 and am 26, we have heard wonderful moments, she is my pride my everything and have grown to love her. I had planned marrying this year but due to financial constraints I put plans to next year.
Late last year, I noticed she has changed, though I understood she wasn't happy she was dating a broke guy anymore , she was always busy to chat or call or even pick calls. I complained severally because I felt someone was making her act this way, she pretended there was no issue, till she said she couldn't bear and demanded a breakup but I insisted on not breaking up, she told me her heart was with someone else after much persuasion.
I was broken, I cried, I begged, I have been very good and faithful to this damsel, she has been my all, but just in two weeks she had gotten a guy whom she said she fell for the way he approached her as he came as a consolation when I was always complaining, she decided to give Mr a chance but insisted I would buy a car as she said she won't marry and be trekking and I told her to leave that till we marry.
Finally that's her stand, she feels the right way, she is hoping to secure her future but she doesn't believe in me due to my present condition. I need your help as now she has hated me, she shouts always at times calms down to assure me she hasn't gone yet, she has fallen deep in two weeks though she said this guy has no job but she doesn't want to suffer, I know I have a promising future already and I need her.
Five years isn't five days, we have been through so much. I still love her, I still believe I can lift her up, she is all I've got, I can't lose her, help! I still want her back though am in prayers.

"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
- Alexander Graham Bell

Matters of the Heart by Mabel Abel

Hello, good evening everyone,  Welcome to another program of Love 'N' Life called Matters of the Heart : Here we share our experiences on "Loving the one who doesn't love you" the emotional and psychological pains,  etc. Would you like to share your experience, pain, or feeling before, during and after the breakup?, who dumped who? How did you get over it after all?
Feel free to in box, email, or call  me if you are interested to share it with us for people to learn from it. Please note that your identity will not be disclosed except or otherwise.
so help someone gets back to life today with your stories/experiences. ‎08077166551 queenforgod63@yahoo.com Let's do it together, God bless you. 😍